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7 Psychological Tricks That Control You Without You Noticing
Want to Be Memorable? Make People Feel Something Deeply
Understanding people is like having VIP access to life.
Ever wonder why certain people get away with everything?
Or why someone is obsessed with you only when you stop trying? Or why your super-qualified friend is still struggling while some loud, overconfident guy keeps getting promoted?
It’s not random. It’s psychology.
And once you start seeing these patterns? You can’t unsee them.
Here’s the deal: People are way more predictable than they think.
And once you understand these seven psychological truths, you’ll start noticing them everywhere.
Let’s get into it.
1. People Don’t See You for Who You Are, They See You for Who They Are
You ever do something completely harmless, and someone wildly misinterprets it?
Like, you take some time for yourself, and suddenly you’re “ignoring” them? Or you express confidence, and someone accuses you of being arrogant?
That’s not a you problem.
